Getting better friends?

if you want to talk to someone you should do it by finding same interests. like if you like sports you should start by saying'' hi i am wondering if you are interested in playing sports''. if that person says yes you start by naming good players or your favorite team.if that person says no you should find another interest.and if your not a good conversation person just let them do the talking.or start by talking about school work and then talk about other stuff.and if you want to get girls make them like you then ask them if they like you. hope you find friends=D